Once you bring in the pets, it’s time to bring in the
deceased loved ones. If there are no pets, then start
with their loved ones.
1. Say: “Your mom is here in full health and happiness. She’s eager to speak with you. Would you like to invite her in?” Always ask first. If they say yes, then continue.
2. Say: “Good. Here she is. She is right in front of you. Say hello. You may even want to give her a hug. You can communicate with her just like you did the elephant, mentally. Mentally say hello to your mother. Talk to your mother.” Sometimes clients still talk to me instead of their loved one. Watch the pronoun usage here. Make sure they are speaking directly to their loved one. If they start talking to you, then correct them. Say, “Talk to your mom, not me.”
3. Next, check that they can hear their loved one.
4. Ask: “What are they saying?” If the response is “I can’t hear them,” then say, “I would like to speak to your loved one. They can hear me, but I can’t hear them.” Then “‘“Hello, Mom. I’m Sue. Nice to meet you. And to the client, ‘What did she say to me?’” Somehow this works. Once they break through, they are good to go. I like them to speak out loud for the recording, but sometimes I give them time to speak together quietly. I do ask them to let me know when the conversation is finished so we can move on. I don’t want them just sitting there, saying nothing when we could be working on something. I like to prompt my clients to ask their loved ones these questions, and they usually have their own questions. Ask: Have they any advice for you? Have they any messages for any other family members? Are they proud of you? Did they meet your partner, lover, or children? What do they think of them? Are they with other family members who have crossed over? Are they okay? Did they go into the light when they passed? The last question is very important. If they didn’t go into the light, tell them it’s time to go home and heal and send them into the light.